When I returned from holidays recently, my fridge was empty and my fruit bowl was bare (not too panic, my pantry and freezer were well stocked!). It was a perfect opportunity to start with a clean slate and take steps to reduce my food wastage and focus more on healthy eating. Having started “me time” at the gym three times a week earlier this year, I am feeling so much fitter and healthier, and whilst I have been eating pretty healthily, it was a great chance to make a few more healthy changes. I have also recently been watching Hugh’s War on Waste and it inspired me to do more to minimise my food wastage. The amount of food thrown out is unbelievable. From food that doesn’t make it to the supermarket because it doesn’t look pretty enough, to leftovers and veggies that hide at the back of ourfridges for too long to products past their use by date. We can all make small changes to minimise our food waste.
So this is what I am going to do.
I am going to plan out my meals for the week using my menu planner which creates my shopping list – something I have been doing, but had let slip recently.
This way I will only buy what I need, in the quantities needed. It will also make life easier as I know what is for dinner each night. I can plan for those busy activity nights when preparation and cooking time is limited and I can even make a double batch to put int freezer for use at a later date.
I am going to use more local produce, and I mean close to home local.
I have a freezer with lamb and beef from a friends’ farm – the taste and quality cannot be beaten and I know they have treated these animals well and not used unnecessary medicines/antibiotics. By planning my meals for the week, I can ensure the meat is defrosted ready to use.
I also have a vegetable patch starting to flourish with crops of pak choy, broccoli, peas, spring onions, leeks, herbs, citrus. The ultimate in garden to plate – produce at its best and freshest. Why would I not want to maximise my crop and use it at its best?
With a little bit of planning I can achieve these things.
With a little planning we can all do more to minimise food wastage.
What can you change to make a difference in your life?
At a recent expo, I was lucky enough to meet some other small business owners, including Hayley, the founder of Kids Favourite Dinners. Hayley had a personal need for dinner inspiration after the arrival of her third child. So she simply asked the question of her friends and her business Kids Favourite Dinners was born.
Hayley’s story resonated with me as it was similar to my own. I had a personal need to create recipes to cater for the food allergies and intolerances in my family and this led to the creation of Loni’s Allergy Free cookbooks to help others cook dishes for those with multiple food allergies and intolerances. To read more about Hayley’s story and Kids Favourite Dinners check out below!
Kids Favourite Dinners is free to join and has some great features such as allergen keys at the top of each recipe, as well as a great feature that allows you to put your allergies in your profile so that any recipe you select that has those allergens in them will be flagged. I have made some Kids Favourite Dinner recipes already with the Chicken, Chorizo and Potato One Pot Dinner being a big hit. My kids called it Chicken, Sausages and Chips!
Hayley is a mum of three children, who has a passion for food and cooking for her family. After the birth of her third child she found dinner times increasingly stressful and harder, It seemed every meal she was cooking had complaints from her little ones and was being wasted which she was finding frustrating, to say the least.
She requested some help from her friends whom are also mothers, simply asking what their kids favourite dinner was. Her first response from a close friend, was a chicken pie, of which she made and her family loved, which got her wondering – surely there is meals out there that kids love to eat, and therefore it prompted her to ask on her personal FB page, that very same question. “What’s your kids favourite dinners?” she was overwhelmed – it had so many comments, that she then created the FB group Kids Favourite Dinners – It has grown in members very quickly and has been extremely successful and helpful to Hayley and her family and more so her members. She has since decided to build it into a website, and has grown it further, to help dinner times be ENJOYABLE with your children.
Hayley believes that meal planning, and shopping according to the plan enables you to save money, as you are not buying unnecessary items, or wasting anything. It enables you to be organised, and makes dinner times stress free, as you know exactly what is being cooked every night, and you have all the ingredients at hand.
Meal planning can be time consuming however Hayley has made sure that through the development of the website, that all of the time, and hard work has been done for you, allowing you to literally click and print.
Hayley’s goal is to grow the community of sharing kids favourite dinners, and for us to enjoy meal times with our children, she believes if takes a village to raise children and helping & supporting one another is what it is all about.
Today, I caught with my besties for coffee (love you ladies!). These coffees are a lot of laughs, but also a great chance for us as mum’s to share the stresses of the many hats we wear. My friend mentioned today that she felt she was doing a mediocre job of everything at the moment and I can relate.
We all wear many hats – mum, cleaner, laundry worker (this feels like a full-time never ending job!), shopper, cook, menu planner, taxi service, homework co-ordinator, chief of after-school activities, committee member….just to name a few. Then there is the small things like remembering family and friends birthdays, buying gifts, sending cards….the list goes on. On top of that I, like many, run my own business.
My friend who is feeling she is doing a mediocre job of everything, has recently started her own business and is trying to add that on top of her daily jobs and keep it all in balance. I know that she will find her balance and realise that she is fabulous at many things and has been all along!
We must all realise that achieving all of the things we do is way beyond medicority and ventures into fabulousness. An all-round gymnast may not be the world champion in any one event, instead they perform at a high level in many events. We mums like all-round gymnasts perform at a high level across many roles – if only there were Olympic medals for the many hats us mum’s wear. The medal factory wouldn’t be able to keep up with demand!
Take a moment to appreciate how fabulous you are today and every day! You are doing a fabulous job.
With a new year of kinder and school underway, the children are settling into their new classes, reconnecting with friends and making new friends too. As they bond, children often ask if their friend can come over for a play. If this friend has allergies, this can be daunting.
So, you have a child with allergies or intolerances coming to your place to play………….what do you do? DON’T panic!
This post gives you tips for a play date at which the child’s parent is in attendance. An upcoming post will look at a play date at which the parent does not stay and will look at what you will need to check before the parent leaves, such as medications and when and how to administer them in the event of an emergency.
If you have a child with allergies/intolerances, share this post with all your non-allergy friends/kinder/school group – it will help open the lines of communication and provide them with some tips to hosting a play date with your child. Most people are scared of managing allergies if they haven’t been exposed to them before, but most will be willing to learn.
Tip 1:Ask the parent to stay.
Tell the parent you would like for them to stay for the first play date so that you can get to know them and understand their child’s allergies/intolerances better. Whilst the parent is there, you can ask questions about the child’s allergies and how to manage them. This play date is about you learning more so that you can have a play date without the parent present, and it also allows the parent to see that you are willing to learn so you can accommodate their child’s eating requirements, giving them comfort to leave the child with you for a play date in the future.
Tip 2: Talk to the parent in advance of the play date about what allergies/intolerances the child has and what they can and cannot eat.
Start with a play date that will only need you to provide some snacks rather than a meal. You can even ask the parent to bring a plate to share that way you will know it is safe for their child to eat, and you can get some ideas for next time.
Tip 3: Ensure your food preparation area, crockery and utensils are clean.
If you are going to prepare some snacks for the children, you need to ensure your food preparation area and serving plates and cutlery is appropriately cleaned before you start. It can’t hurt to give play area and toys a once over too, especially if you have younger children that like to chew on toys. The attached website has some great tips on cleaning to prevent contamination:
Fruit skewers are a great option that kids love – there is just something about food on a skewer that kids love.
Vegetable sticks with dip – ask the parent in advance what brand and flavour dip the child can eat. Don’t feel bad for asking, it shows that you care. The parent will be grateful and more than happy to advise. If you haven’t had a chance to ask in advance, check the labels careful before purchasing and keep the product sealed and have it checked by the parent before you open it.
For a more hearty snack Loni’s Allergy Free Chicken Nuggets are a great option – kids love them and my recipe is easy to prepare using only a few ingredients that you can buy at the supermarket. Even better, you can make these in advance and freeze them, so that all you need to do is pop them in the oven when your guests arrive. Making them in advance means you can check the ingredients you are planning to use with the child’s family to ensure they are suitable.
Recipes for fruit skewers, dips and chicken nuggets are all available in my cookbook Loni’s Allergy Free (RRP $39.95) along with other great everyday recipes – click here to purchase.
Tip 5: Enjoy the play date and catch up with the parent.
I hope everyone has had a great Christmas/New Years break. Wishing you all a happy, healthy and fun 2016!
I have been enjoying the holidays with my family, spending lots of time at the beach and just hanging out. I love school holidays, no school or kinder, no activities, no rushing out the door, no rush to get dressed just time to relax and play games without the distractions of the usual busy-ness of life. Time being just a mum……the topic of this blog post!
I went for walk in the park, on my own – well actually pushing a pram with child #3 in it, but #1 and #2 stayed home so close to on my own!
Whilst I walked I think I realised why us women say we are “just a mum”…..could it be that instead of saying because we think of being “just a mum” as not a job, we are saying it because there is only enough time in the day to be “just a mum”? Being “just a mum” requires quite a resume of skills when you think about it.
“Just a mum” must haves:
Valid driver’s licence to taxi children to crèche/kinder/school/activities
Exemplary organisational skills to ensure all household duties are completed (at least on a semi-regular basis) in between your children’s activities such as cleaning, shopping, washing, meals
Master degree in clothes folding (I swear that every child doubles your amount of washing and seriously what is with trying to fold fitted sheets!)
Superb multi-tasker – must be able to cook dinner, supervise homework, gather snacks and listen to all your kids talking all at the same time whilst looking calm and in-control!
On-call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year and able to function at a reasonably high level with minimal sleep.
Well versed in medical conditions with ability to diagnose what is a sniffle and what requires a Dr (particularly challenging in the younger years when children can’t tell you what hurts!). Must enjoy reading outdated trash magazines whilst waiting in the Dr’s surgery for the 2nd or 3rd time in a week. I often think that I should have a standing weekly appointment over winter as one of my three kids will use it!
Add to this list if you have allergies or intolerances in your family
20:20 vision to read the super fine print of labels to ensure foods purchased accommodate all members of the households allergies and intolerances
The memory of an elephant to keep tabs on who can eat what, as well as other allergies which in my family include medications and sunscreens!
I have recently decided that this “just a mum” needs to spend a little more time on herself and getting fit and dropping the baby weight. Hmm, can you still call it baby weight almost 2 years after #3 was born? Someone told me once that you gain 5kg for every child…whilst I am not sure if the figure is accurate, the principle definitely is. I have certainly gained a few kgs with each child that I have decided need to go.
As I thought about this “just a mum” theory I had developed during my walk, I realised that being “just a mum” with a bit of “wifely duties” on the side, really does take up just about every waking minute. Just finding half an hour a day to go for an energetic walk (vs a stop my shoe fell off, stop my legs are tired, stop I saw a pretty flower type walk) is not an easy task. Most days my “me” time walk is like today, pushing my cheeky, adorable two year old in her pram, whilst she sings to herself – extra resistance pushing a pram perhaps? Perhaps it doesn’t entirely matching the definition of “me time”, but would I trade it? Never!
So I guess what I realised is that anyone who says they are just a mum, is doing the worlds hardest, yet best job in the world.
In an ideal world, I would spend more time with my kids, more time with my husband, more time together as a family, more me time, more time doing things that I love….sorry golf clubs that have been gathering dust for 6 years. Unfortunately, however I have not discovered the ability to manufacture time. So, my “me time” often gets put off to make way for the other things.
What do I want to say to all the “just a mum’s” out there?
Kids are little for such a short time that I wouldn’t trade spending every waking minute being “just a mum”. As my kids are getting older, I can see the light ahead where I will have some me time and perhaps it will be more me time than I had bargained on. So I am just going to cherish every minute, cherish taking my two year old on walks that end with a play in the park, cherish the chats and games of eye-spy on the way to and from school, cherish seeing my kids learn new skills in whatever activities they choose, cherish stopping every third step to pick a flower or watch an ant trail. Isn’t that what life is all about?
Being “just a mum” sounds just perfect to me. To all you wonderful mum’s out there be proud of being “just a mum” – we have the best job in the world.
With Christmas just around the corner (8 sleeps for those of us counting), this is an apt time for those of us with food intolerance to remember the pain our last “just a little bit won’t hurt” episode inflicted, and vow not to do it to ourselves this Christmas. For allergy sufferers, extra vigilance at this time of the year is critical, with meals at other people’s houses and lollies and chocolates common place gifts, you can never be too careful. My Christmas wish for you all is for a happy, healthy and joyous time with your families, full of great allergy-friendly food.
Merry Christmas from my family to yours!
When you suffer from allergies, just a little bit is not an option, as just a little bit is life threatening. However, when you sufferer from intolerances, just a little bit causes some uncomfortableness that passes. Those of you with intolerances will be able to identify the times when you are lulled into thinking a little bit won’t hurt…..for me it was my husband’s 40th birthday. Whilst the menu was expertly caters to accommodate all the diets of the guest including myself, it was the OMG Cake that everyone kept raving about the got me. There was an intolerance suitable cake, but the layers of sponge, crème patisserie and filo pastry in this OMG Cake had everyone talking and I couldn’t resist just a little taste (and then a few more little tastes!). This cake was exceptionally and definitely delicious.
As I sat wanting to scratch the skin of my shins and the backs of my knees, whilst my tummy grumbled and performed Olympic grade somersaults, I was very much reminded of why I cannot eat just a little bit. The after effects outweigh the enjoyment at the time (although as I mentioned this cake was exceptional so the gap was shortened!). The memory of this cake will last for a set period and when it wears off and I have conveniently forgotten the impact, I will no doubt be sucked in again. For me the memory of the bad after effects last a little longer each time I indulge in things I shouldn’t…will I ever learn?
Why do we do it to ourselves? A short period of enjoyment for longer lasting uncomfortable side effects….I guess it is the part of us that wants to be normal and like everyone else, that wants to eat those foods that look and taste amazing, the part of us that wishes just a little bit won’t hurt.
Don’t forget to check out my recently released e-book titled “Loni’s Allergy Free Christmas Menu”.
Full of delicious recipes for a complete Christmas Dinner with all the trimmings, as well as recipes to transform leftovers into delicious meals, this e-book will take the stress out of Christmas cooking for those with allergies and intolerances. All recipes are free from wheat, gluten, corn, yeast, dairy, egg, peanuts, tree nuts, sesame seeds, tomato and seafood. Also included is a full shopping list and time planner, so that as much of your time as possible is spent enjoy the joy of Christmas with your family.
All parents feel nervous about leaving their children at crèche, kinder, school for the first time. Will they be ok, will they be upset, who will they play with?
For parents of children with allergies and intolerances the nerves are multiplied exponentially. Often for the first time, someone other than yourself or a trusted family member will be looking after your child and will be responsible for managing your child’s allergies and intolerances. The mere thought of it probably sends you into a state of sheer terror and this is perfectly normal.
If have a child starting crèche, kinder or school next year, orientation programs will be commencing soon or may be underway already. This is a great time to ensure your child’s allergy and intolerance management plan is in place ready for them to start next year. For those with children already at crèche, kinder or school it is also a great time to work with their carers/teachers for next year to ensure they are familiar with all the requirements for your child relating to their allergies and intolerances.
My son started kinder this year with an asthma and allergies management plan having to be put in place, and I have witnessed my sister dealing with her children with allergies starting crèche, kinder and school. This first hand experience in addition to being on the other side of the fence serving on a kinder committee and reviewing policies, gives me insights about what questions you should be asking. With this blog post, I have attached a free download of common questions you should ask your facility or school so that you can arm yourself with the knowledge of how your child’s allergies and intolerances will be managed. This will help alleviate some of the fear as you will know that the care facility manages allergies and intolerances well or if they don’t you can seek an alternative or work with them to set up the right processes to ensure your child is in a safe environment.
It is your right to ask questions to satisfy yourself that your child will be in a safe environment. Never feel embarrassed or like an annoyance for taking care of your child. Never allow a facility to treat you like your being difficult. As my daughter says, my favourite part of school is learning. I think loving learning in a safe environment is all any of us can want for our children.
Best wishes for an awesome year of learning ahead everyone!
I remember the first shop so clearly. It wasn’t actually for me, instead I accompanied my sister after her son was diagnosed with peanut and egg allergies. Later when I was diagnosed with intolerances, it certainly was an easier first shop already having experienced one before. Anyway, back to that first shop with my sister…I am sure the store manager thought we were casing the joint for a large-scale robbery – we spent 5 hours in the store. We must have looked so dodgy, loitering in the aisles, picking up product after product and then putting them down again….they really must have thought we were mad or robbing the joint!
This shop, aside from restocking the pantry, was also to ensure that there were some “treats” to show her son that this allergy wasn’t going to stop him eating yummy food. Essentially we just started at aisle one and read label after label after label. This is definitely the hardest shop. After this, you know what brands to look for and subsequent shops require you to just cross check the label to make sure nothing has changed since your last purchase.
After the five hours in the store, of me reading the label, her reading the label, me reading the label, her reading the label, a discussion and then finally agreeing it could go in the trolley, we ventured home to unpack where I checked the label, she checked the label and then it went in the pantry. Whilst my background as a food scientist certainly helped with this first shop and label reading, it was still a scary task even for me. With my tips and information below, I hope that I make your first shop a little easier and less scary. Every shop will get easier. You will always need to check labels and be vigilant, but it will get easier.
MY FOUR SIMPLE SHOPPING TIPS:
TIP 1:Shop for single ingredient foods.
Fruit, vegetables, unprocessed cuts of meats (fillets, steaks, chops etc) only contain one ingredient so are easy to identify as suitable or not for your dietary requirements. Preparing food from single ingredient foods means you know exactly what you are putting into the dish.
TIP 3: Take a second set of eyes for the first shop and clear your schedule.
The first shop will be a length shop and there will be lots of labels to read. A second set of eyes to cross check is definitely a big help.
TIP 4: Check every label, every time.
Don’t assume that the brand is safe because you have purchased it before.
Don’t assume that different pack sizes of a product will have the same ingredient list.
Don’t assume different brands will have the same ingredient list.
CHECK EVERY LABEL, EVERY TIME.
So those are my four simple tips. Next I want to share with you some information about green grocers and butchers vs supermarkets, and processed foods to help you with your shopping.
Green Grocers and Butchers vs Supermarkets:
Getting to know local green grocer and butcher is a great option as they can offer a more personal service than a supermarket can. Plus I would rather support my local community than big supermarket chains. By getting to know your local green grocer and butcher and discussing your allergies with them, you will very quickly be able to establish products that you can eat – for example my local butcher only uses rice flour in his sausages so I know that I can eat these. Many butchers will be happy to prepare your products immediately after a clean so there is no risk of cross contamination and many will do a batch specifically for you.
Supermarkets can’t offer the kind of personal service a local green grocer or butcher can. However, supermarkets are convenient with all products in one place, and for working people, often the only option as butchers and green grocers are closed after work hours and weekends are often busy with activities. For supermarket shopping, shop around the edges, this is where you will find a lot of the single ingredient foods – fruits, vegetables and unprocessed cuts of meat.
Processed foods are packaged foods and make up the majority of the products in the aisles. These will have labels that require your careful attention to read and identify if they meet your dietary needs. Check out my website or cookbook for my tips for reading labels and information on identifying allergens in products to help you be more efficient in reading labels.
I put processed foods into three main categories:
Processed meats – Items such as sausages, meatballs, marinade meats and other processed meat goods will require you to read the label.
Foods processed predominantly for preservation or increase shelf-life – These typically have very short ingredient lists and contain only a few ingredients such as flours, sugars, pulses, pasta, rice, tinned and frozen fruits and vegetables.
Highly processed foods – these tend to have very long ingredient list as they are made from multiple ingredients and often have numbers in the ingredient lists representing various food additives. These will require careful attention to read the labels to identify if these are suitable for your dietary requirements (refer to My tips for reading labels and identifying allergens). Check, double check and triple check.
MY FIVE EASY STEPS TO A CLEAN, ALLERGY-FRIENDLY PANTRY.
Does your pantry look like this – full of potentially allergenic products?
Don’t know where to begin to remove the allergenic products?
Follow my five easy steps to an allergy-friendly pantry and refrigerator. I won’t lie, they will definitely be a lot emptier at the end of the clean than when you started. You will need to go shopping to restock…..I can hear you thinking already, “how do I know what products are ok?” Well, my next blog is all about the first shop and will provide you with handy tips to help guide you.
But, let’s not get ahead of ourselves. The first job at hand is to clean out your pantry and fridge of all products containing the allergens or that may contain those allergens. My tips are for complete removal of products containing allergens. If you have a member of your household with anaphylactic allergies, this is the safest option. This should be done by someone without allergies/intolerances and when any allergy/intolerance sufferers aren’t around. Arm yourself with new sponges, new scrubbing brushes, cleaning spray, garbage bags, elbow grease and if you can get a second person to help they will make it that much easier.
Step 1: Take everything off the shelves/out of your pantry and put on your bench. I mean everything!
Step 2: Now it is time to give the shelves a good clean whilst that pantry is empty! If your pantry was anything like mine when I did this, the honey jar was stuck to the shelf, there was stray nuts and seeds, flour dust and even a few unidentifiable items! This step is important, as you want to remove any traces of allergens from your shelves. So give your hands a good wash with soap, dry them on paper towel, pull out your favourite commercial cleaning product, new sponges and new scrubbing brushes and start cleaning. When you finish cleaning, throw out the sponges and scrubbing brushes, as they may contain traces of allergens, and throughly wash your hands.
Did you know that…..
Studies have shown that commercial cleaning products effectively remove the protein of a food allergen such as peanuts, however dishwashing liquid does not. For hands, washing with liquid soap or bar soap is an effective method of cleaning, however plain water or alcohol-based hand sanitisers alone do not clean effectively (link to: Journal of Allergy and Clinical Immunology Study).
Step 3: Ok so the pantry is clean, now on to the products. Only put back food items that you know are safe and free from allergens. Start with the products with the original seal intact (ie unopened products) – read the labels carefully (refer to My tips for reading labels and Identifying Allergens section of my website). It really helps to have a second set of eyes for this step. Read the label, if it contains or may contain the allergen – THROW IT OUT. If you think its ok, read the label again, then have your second set of eyes read it too. If it’s OK, put it back in your pantry. Continue for all unopened items.
Step 4: Once you have completed all the unopened packs, it is time to assess what’s left. Anything that is not in its original packaging, and therefore you do not have the ingredient list for, needs to be THROWN OUT. If you do not have the ingredient list you cannot check if it contains allergens.
Step 5: Now, its time to deal with the opened products in original labelled packaging. The safest option is to discard all open items as you cannot be sure of cross contact even in products that do not contain the allergen as an ingredient. For example if you are allergic to wheat, open jars of jams, spreads etc would most likely have had a knife that had bread residue on it so it MUST BE THROWN OUT. Don’t take chances, if in doubt THROW IT OUT.
Complete steps 1-5 with your refrigerator and any other places you store food items. You must check every food product in the house to ensure that the only foods left are safe. Clean all your plates/crockery/cutlery/utensils. Running all items through the dishwasher on a normal cycle is recommended by allergy organisations to effectively clean these items.
So, now you are probably standing in a house which is near empty of food. Time to hit the shops! A scary prospect, but with my tips on shopping in my next blog, you will be better equipped to handle this first shopping trip.
So, you have just left the allergist/doctor’s office after being given the news that you (or a family member) are allergic or intolerant to one or more food groups. You are no doubt in a state of shock and panic with questions buzzing around your head such as:
“What can I eat when I get home?”
“Are the foods in my pantry and refrigerator safe?”
“How do I know what is in foods?”
“What can I cook?”
“How am I going to manage with school/work?”
“How can I keep myself/loved one safe?”
“Will I ever be able to leave the house again?”
“I/they could die from eating that food/s.”
Rest assured that this is completely normal. Every person who has been diagnosed with allergies or intolerances has had these questions (and more). Immediately after diagnosis you will most likely feel completed overwhelmed with no idea where to begin. You are not alone. As someone who has experienced this first hand as well as having help my sister come to terms and prepare her kitchen for her children’s allergies, I have been through the panic of not knowing what is safe to eat. Having made it to the other side, I am here to tell you it does get better.
In upcoming posts, I will tackling some daunting tasks for the newly diagnosed, including the pantry clean out, the first shop and starting crèche/kinder/school. As a food intolerance sufferer, aunty to children with food allergies, food scientist, mum and allergy-friendly recipe developer, I will share with you my knowledge and experiences and help you improve your knowledge and confidence so you can take more control of life and the food being eaten.
I will share with you handy hints for the first shop after being diagnosed with allergies/intolerances, my Top 5 label reading tips and my starting crèche/kinder/school checklist – a perfect item to take with you during the orientation period that are occuring this term so you can get everything in place before they begin in 2016. The first day of creche/kinder/school is exciting and should be enjoyed (and copiously photographed!). The more you can arrange now regarding their allergies/intolerances the better. It will make you feel more relaxed, leaving you to focus on the tears of pride welling in your eyes on thier first day!